As a parent, you know your child best. You notice the little things like how they play, respond to you, or interact with other children. But sometimes, the early signs of autism can be easily missed or mistaken for shyness, stubbornness, or simply “that they are a late bloomer.”
At ABA Connections, we’re here to help families in Apache Junction, San Tan Valley, Queen Creek, Gilbert, and Mesa recognize the early signs of autism and take the next steps toward diagnosis and support. Early intervention can, and does, make a lifelong difference and the earlier we start, the better.
TIP: Familiarize yourself with typical developmental milestones for each age, as delays in these areas can indicate potential concerns.
10 Most-Often Missed Signs of Autism in Children Ages 2–6
Many signs of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) can appear in the toddler and preschool years, but some areeasy to overlook, especially in children who are high-functioning or verbal. To help you determine if your child needs an ASD diagnosis and intervention, here are the top 10 signs that are commonly missed by parents, caregivers, and even teachers:
1. Lack of Eye Contact: Avoiding or making minimal eye contact can be one of the earliest indicators, even in babies.
2. Not Responding to Their Name: If your child doesn’t respond when you call their name by age 12 months, it’s worth noting.
3. Delayed Speech or Language Skills: Some children with autism begin speaking later or lose words they once used. Others may speak on time but have difficulty with back-and-forth conversation.
4. Echolalia (Repeating Words or Phrases): Repeating lines from TV shows, books, or what others say—without understanding the context is a common trait in those with ASD.
5. Not Pointing or Gesturing: By 18 months, most children point to show interest. A lack of gestures like waving or nodding can be an early red flag.
6. Limited Pretend Play: Children with autism may not engage in imaginative play, like pretending to feed a doll or make animal noises during playtime.
7. Sensory Sensitivities: Strong reactions to lights, textures, sounds, or smells may indicate sensory processing differences.
8. Repetitive Behaviors: Hand-flapping, lining up toys, or watching spinning objects for long periods are common repetitive behaviors.
9. Unusual Attachment to Routines: A strong need for sameness and difficulty with transitions can be signs of autism—even if the child appears “easygoing” in other ways.
10. Social Struggles: Preferring to play alone, not noticing others’ emotions, or struggling with cooperative play can point to difficulties with social communication.
FACT: While autism can be diagnosed earlier, the average age of autism diagnosis is 4 years, and it can be reliably diagnosed by a specialist as early as age 2.
Why Early Diagnosis Matters
Identifying autism early allows families to begin vital therapy while the brain is still rapidly developing. According to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), early intervention services can improve communication, social skills, and daily living abilities in children with ASD.
How to Get an Autism Diagnosis in Arizona
If you recognize some of these signs in your child, don’t wait. Getting an autism diagnosis isn’t a label. Instead, it opens the door to the services and support your child needs.
Here’s how to start:
Step 1: Talk to Your Pediatrician or Psychiatrist
Bring up your concerns and ask for a developmental screening. You can also self-refer to a diagnostic provider.
Step 2: Get an ADOS-2 Evaluation
The ADOS-2 (Autism Diagnostic Observation Schedule) is the gold-standard tool for identifying autism. It is play-based and used to assess communication, social interaction, and repetitive behaviors.
- Where to Get an ADOS-2 Evaluation in Arizona:
- ABA Therapy Connections: Schedule an initial screening and evaluation.
- Rockwood Prep: A trusted local provider for autism evaluations and a private school for children with learning differences.
At ABA Connections, we provide family-focused autism assessments and evidence-based ABA therapy in your community. We’re passionate about helping kids thrive, and helping parents feel informed and empowered.
Whether your child is just showing early signs or already has a diagnosis, we can help you find answers and take the next steps.
Concerned About Missed Signs of Autism?
You don’t have to wonder or wait. We offer screenings, support with referrals, and help understanding the evaluation process.
Call 480-245-5366 to schedule a free consultation. Early action changes everything.